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Every woman is Fabulous. She just has to discover it inside of her

Every woman is Fabulous. She just has to discover it inside of her

My favourite English word is the word “fabulous” because it means great and wonderful only in a slightly better sense. The word “fabulous” is for me the equivalent of the word woman. And it expresses to me exactly how I feel like a woman and who I am as a woman.

Every woman is Fabulous.

Being Fabulous is more than just having style and looking great. It is the superpower that every woman has in her. Being Fabulous means being a woman with great abilities, such as strength, inspiration, courage, bravery, self-satisfaction, inner balance, and I could continue.

But the point is that if someone asks me how I am and my answer is Fabulous, it means that I am on top of my happiness with myself and that makes my life great, a happy life. Even if I can’t do something, I’m Fabulous, and that’s why I know that it will all be okay in the end. That everything will be solved. I believe in myself and my own strength. For me, that means being a woman, being a Fabulous.

Every woman is fabulous.

I’m Fabulous woman with everything that goes with it and I am proud of that.

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Well, at least I was…

I’m probably still Fabulous, but I’ve been forgetting about it for the last few days.

To be completely honest, I’ve been forgetting about it for a few months now …

I haven’t felt Fabulous in a few months, and I haven’t done anything about it. I ignored the feeling inside me because other things were happening and were more important. Do you know that feeling?

Do you know that feeling when you simply push away your feelings, thoughts and desires because you think they aren’t that important, or simply because that there is so much going on in the world every day and many of them are bad things so your feelings that you don’t feel good, that you don’t feel Fabulous, are irrelevant…

When you as a woman with a big heart for everyone around you, you put at a first-place everyone but yourself? Do you know that feeling?

I thought I was over with these feelings. Especially when I finally reached the point, where I was fully aware that I was the main character in my life story. I would never think that I will feel the way I did for the last few months. Empty, without motivation or inspiration …

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Simply put, I feel everything but definitely, I don’t feel Fabulous. I used to use that word with joy in almost every sentence, and at the moment, it kind of disappeared from my dictionary.

What happened to me? Nothing specific, just life.

He certainly hasn’t been very fabulous in recent months.

I don’t know. Too much negative work energy, people around are also not super positive, which is probably normal given the situation. Lack of adventure and travel, limited options for practically everything … should I continue?

There’s been too much going on in the world lately. And it kind of negatively affects my personal world as well.

I started to feel a little bad, uncomfortable in my world. I started to think more about life and things that I can’t do or influence at the moment due to various measures. I began to look more at myself in the mirror and see all my shortcomings. No positive things, what can I tell you.

My world is completely out at the moment and it’s no one’s fault. Maybe mine, because I let it go that far.

And here was the first moment I should have realized something, but…

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I don’t even know what the first trigger was. Maybe it was how I tried to be in a good mood for everyone and I didn’t get anything out of it. I gave too much of my energy to others and there was nothing left for myself. I tried so hard to be Fabulous. Although maybe it was enough, to be honest, and open about how I really feel. I forgot that the most important relationship is the relationship with myself.

My fabulous turned into exhausted.

I didn’t know it for a long time or didn’t realize it. Maybe I knew it, but I ignored it. Just like my other feelings, thoughts and desires. After all, women sometimes do that in the interests of others. Do you know that feeling?

The more I go ventilating to nature, the more I think about it. I miss being Fabulous. I like the feeling of it. Who wouldn’t like it?

Being Fabulous is amazing and refreshing. But only if it’s honest and real.

I began to think about being Fabulous again.

I write this to you, dear woman, but I also say it to myself, because I need to hear it out loud. I need to see it written somewhere.

I was too absorbed in the outside world and what is happening around so I let the outside world invade my personal world, and it was slowly falling apart like a house of cards.

I am Fabulous woman, but I forgot about it.

I started it all. And this is important to realize.

It took me an awfully long time to realize it, several months. That’s why, dear woman, I want to make it easier for you, if you find yourself in this article. I just want to explain it to you.

It all starts with you, inside you, even though it may sound like a cliché to you.

Your inside is a reflection of your appearance. And you won’t achieve the beauty of your inside with the help of someone or something else. It doesn’t work that way. Maybe just for a while, but you still need to be Fabulous and not just for a while. You want to be Fabulous all the time and for yourself.

I’m not some expert. My greatest teacher is life, and I often listen to his advice when it’s too late. Well, as they say, better late than never.

You have two options, dear Fabulous woman.

You can stay sad inside and wait for rescue from outside, a prince on a white horse, or a best friend who will satisfy you for a while, or you can just get up and start looking for Fabulous inside of you.

Start with small things like nature walks to clear your head and figure out why you suddenly don’t feel Fabulous or to settle your thoughts. Take care of your hobbies or try new hobbies. The possibilities are limited but not entirely impossible.

Exercise or just dance fool and get endorphins. Do something, anything. Don’t think about it too much. Just start and rest will follow.

Don’t read every message from the world, don’t stress unnecessarily. Just live for a moment. You don’t have to solve everything now, to know everything right away and have a plan. You just have to do what you want and feel.

Every woman is Fabulous
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I’m writing that to you, but I’m saying that to myself as well. Because these are the things that got me where I am now, and I don’t like it, somewhere completely out of being Fabulous. And I want to be there again because it’s a great feeling to be Fabulous.

So once again I will listen to the advice of life, stand in front of the mirror and say to myself that today is a great day to start working to make me feel Fabulous again because being Fabulous is more than having style.

It’s about woman power and confidence. And every woman has it. She just has to find it inside herself. Every woman is Fabulous, so don’t forget that, dear woman.

4 thoughts on “Every woman is Fabulous. She just has to discover it inside of her

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      I love this! Women are all fabulous. And there are just factors that make us forget that. That’s why we need the support of our fellow women. Reading this made me feel better that I am not alone in experiencing this adulthood challenges. Hugs. ❤️

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      I am actually at a place where I feel fabulous! I wasn’t for a long time and had many struggles related to it. I finally decided I needed to stop giving in to my negative emotions and live! I have been praying and focusing more on God and what he does in my life. God helps me to feel fabulous because I don’t get so caught up in my day day duties. Thanks for sharing your perspective!

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      Thanks for the reminder! Most women forget how fabulous they’re. It can be difficult to think about doing that make you happy when you have a lot going on such as chronic illness among others.

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      I love this! We are definitely all fabulous and that word really is amazing. Sometimes we go through things that make us forget this so thank you for the reminder and for sharing your story 🙂

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